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How do I stop overthinking a new relationship?

Overthinking is often a Mercury-Moon pattern: a busy mind reacting to feeling. Give the mind a job: write down what you know and what you are guessing. Keep the routines that keep you steady (sleep, movement, time with friends), and let the relationship develop at the speed of real events. During Mercury retrograde, avoid deep interpretations of texts and wait for a conversation.

Answered by SimplyAstro. Astrology is a symbolic tradition offered for reflection and entertainment; it is not medical, legal or financial advice.

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